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Monday, March 21, 2011

Room 11 is Empty...

I don't think my Mom, Sister and I will ever forget the kindness and care at Casey House or the first time we sat at the "Great Table" the day we arrived. There was something so comforting about having a table to sit at there since so much of our family life is sitting at that kitchen table. The feel of a strong table that was able to handle some of the most difficult of days. Knowing that we would soon have one less person to sit around the kitchen table, we decided it was time for a new one. We went from five chairs to four in December 2007 and the thought of one less at the table seemed too surreal. I had ordered a new one and four new chairs on March 3...the night we first sat at the "Great Table" at Casey House.

It was peaceful in the end and the road to get there was traveled with strength...my Grandma is and always will be...amazing. Her spirit and spunk brought her to DC from a small town in Vermont. Her spirit and spunk guided her on Friday evening. As I have always written...this is no place for whimps.

Our new table and chairs were delivered on Saturday afternoon...the start of a new begining. It was poetic. Room 11 in Casey House may now be empty but we are not...our hearts are full with memories and a certain calm that comes from knowing that there is one more person out and about in the universe looking over you. It is warm. It is comforting. It is real. And we have a strong, sturdy table to come back too as we move forward.

2 comments:

Kelly said...

Joy, your posts always have such grace and beauty, even when you are dealing with the toughest of topics. I love the way you put it: "a certain calm that comes from knowing that there is one more person out and about in the universe looking over you". I don't think I've ever heard it from that point of view, and I will certainly adopt that mindset going forward. Blessings to you and your family. And your new Angel.

Joy Wizziwa said...

Kelly, Thanks so much...that makes me want to keep writing...it has been so therapeutic...always has been actually. ;)